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How do I start tapping? My husband cheated on me for over a year, while I was pregnant. He was unemployed then and still is. He lives at my expense I even have to pay for his child support for kids of a previous marriage. I am angry, I hate myself, feel unlovable, ugly, I want out of the marriage but don’t have the guts, I don’t hate him but I can’t forgive him and at the very leaste I need to be able to demand him to find a job. Help!!!!
Start with one issue & stay with it until you feel at peace with it. Start with memories of certain events. Release the hate for yourself, feelings of being unlovable, ugly & the feelings of being trapped. Unless you release what you have inside you, you will pick someone else to do what you know how to do to yourself. Love yourself & then you will find someone to love you at that newer level. You can not run from yourself so make peace with your hurts & move on. I send you love & peace.
Removed by request? What was it about? Who would request that when you have helpful videos?
But isn’t this against the law of attraction? I mean, while your tapping you are constantly repeating what you DON’T want; you are focusing on what you want to get rid of and tha law says that’s the way to get more of what you don’t want.
The law of attraction is whatever you hold in mind you wll attract. If you have negative memories IN SIDE YOU will attract them into your life. We address the memories and release the negative emotions along with changing how you see the memory. When it is gone you replace it with good. LOA is whatever you hold inside good or bad. Changing what you hold inside will change your present and future.
I would like to believe in LOA. But, can anyone tell me how is it supposed to work in babies, children and animals? I can’t understand how these innocent optimistic beings can attract bad things on themselves.
There is another law when you are innocent optimistic child it is called do the best you can with what happens. (I actually call it, “Shit Happens Law”) How you handle it from that point on will either will occur again or not but we must learn to let it go.
FIRST PART:
Very good question, I’ve been wondering the exact same thing, though I haven’t gone into animals, which is another interesting point…
But I’ve read we design the main points of our lives before we are born. Call it our soul, spirit, energy, consciousness… So while being innocent babies, we have that program in us already. And just like I agree with HealingMagic, the way we react to it is another level of our free will.
SECOND PART:
I realized I didn’t have anything to add except my sources:
DR Brian Weiss and “The Secret”.
Hi Robert, thanks for the lesson. How can I change this image of my dad who abused my mom, adultery and I seen those things happen and to this day I am almost 50 he does not know that I seen him do this. But I find myself choosing men who have cheated on me or mentally abused me. Married twice and then in relationships that the man is not fully with me or disrespectful. I allowed my relatives to physically abuse me when I was little and it plays over and over in my head, the beatings. Help!
You already know that the image is inside you and you are the one now affirming the actions they did many years ago. The image is within you so there are many ways to change it. One you can change the color of the image, push away, put clown noses on everyone involved, tap away the emotions you are feelings you have involved. You have to understand you are all actors in your your memories as well as the movie director. You will need to make peace within yourself with each memory. Sessions
That is a system that may support having the problem, you chose these experiences before coming so why are you complaining. That is a belief system that tries to explain why “shit happens to innocent people” It just happens, so let it go and move on unless you have already bought the name tag then you may have to wear that one for a long time. I suggest get the one that says, “I am a dynamic person who is always changing and improving by letting go.”
Lately I’ve been giving up on any opinion/perception/understanding/explanation I’ve given in the past to life. It’s odd, but I seem to be blocking my own thinking somehow. I’ve been obsessively trying to find these explanations via deep thinking since an early age. Now I can’t do that any more, I’m blank & it’s hard to connect stuff & concentrate. An extremely bad short term memory. I guess it is a way of my system to protect me from this obsessive thinking,that has led me to depression as well.
What about: “Stuff happens and whether it’s shit or not is up to us”.
100% Correct Everything is a blessing even shit
We are all children, no matter what our age, and attract what is in our unconscious. LOA doesn’t discriminate, nor can it distinguish the conscious thoughts from the unconscious ones. We are all innocent. We are simply a product of our programming. The healing magic happens when we release, embrace/allow, forgive and let go. And the tapping helps to release the programming from our nervous system, run by the unconscious mind for the most part. I appreciate what you are ^up^ to Robert!
You are right on and very well stated!
It sounds like something I would have said or I have already stated in 50 thousands of ways!
We are on the same page!!! Thank you for the kind comment!!! Love and peace Robert
Thanks for your videos, very helpful!! I want to ask you a question about an appointment with you.
How can I ask you?
Thanks
Why do you become the father too?
wow….Very interesting!
I was so teased when this video ended. I wanted to hear what’s next :)
I tried to find the rest on youtube, but the next video was a little bit later. I tried to find the DVD on the website but I was kind of confused. Is it there?
One more thing. Robert, I love the way you understand and explain EFT and how we humans work.
I am interested in learning EFT and your faster technique because I want to be able to heal myself others. I feel like this is my calling in life. Can you recommend the right sequence of DVDs from your website?
this is all so true.. I’ve still got some extreme difficulties with my love life… I also understand that the last girl I liked and who rejected me… was exactly the same as the girl before who didn’t seem to have any interest in me… treated me the same way… and I ended up feeling humiliated… the last time is happened was in january and I’ve been tapping on it ever since… it seems to keep coming back… very difficult challenge for me
You may even look at your family dynamics and who also rejected whom? Just a thought.